Hi everyone,
My boyfriend (32) and I (30) have been together for 7 years and are thinking about visiting Fata Morgana when we’re in Amsterdam.
We’ve never been to a swingers club before, but we’re both curious and open-minded. At the moment we’re more interested in the experience/atmosphere rather than definitely getting involved with others, but we’re not ruling anything out either.
We’d really appreciate any advice from people who’ve been there (or similar clubs), especially:
What the overall vibe is like for first-timers
Is there pressure to participate or is it okay to just observe/socialise?
What are the main rules/etiquette we should know beforehand?
What do people usually wear when arriving vs later in the night?
Any tips to avoid feeling awkward or overwhelmed?
Best nights to go?
We’ve read a bit online but would love real experiences or tips from people who’ve actually been.
Thanks in advance!