She Was The 2nd Wife
Have you ever met someone and instantly felt you’ve known them forever? Like you were meant to be together?
This happened with my client. She met a man at work, and felt so comfortable with him. They knew the other’s thoughts, they would finish each other's sentences.
Soon they began a relationship.
And 2 years later, he marred someone else.
There were some reasons. He was promised to someone else before they met. Family pressure, the usual.
My client was heartbroken. She just immersed herself in her work and tried to put him out of her mind. But he reached out and they started talking again.
In our session, we jumped to a life in 1600s, she saw herself as a vegetable seller. And this charismatic man came up to her. She swooned the moment she saw him. This is her current life boyfriend. He felt the same about her.
They fell in love and married. Only thing, he was already married, she was his 2nd wife.
It was common in their culture, because she was raised by 2 mums; both of them were wives of a man who wasn’t around.
She loved him deeply. He loved them both. But she was insecure of the 1st wife. She was gorgeous, with a lovely figure. This is her ex-boyfriend’s current life wife.
In time, she gave birth to a beautiful baby boy. And a few years later to another boy. (One is her current life father, the other is her current life sister.)
The other wife didn’t want kids, because she wanted to keep her figure. She also didn’t eat very much so she could maintain her beauty. This led to her getting very sick, and a few years later, she passed.
While relieved, she was still insecure because her husband missed the 1st wife.
Their relationship progressed, and there lived happily and harmoniously! Their boys were growing well, they moved to a bigger home.
In her 60s, he passed. She couldn’t bear being alone, so a few weeks later, she passed, too.
Her higher self showed us this life to reveal her connection to her boyfriend. Her higher self said they could be together in this life, but she needed to love herself first.
As part of the session, we also cleared guilt and shame, and old ideas of unworthiness. The usual suspects!!