u/Blue-Key05

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Hi im Rachel! Im looking to make some friends which I struggle with. I just got late diagnosed with Audhd this year and thats put a lot into perspective, also ive started Adderall and thats helped with socializing. I started transitioning last year in September and thats also made life so much better, but im still bad at making friends. Idk just having like 20 ideas of how to respond to someone and not knowing which ones are "normal" "best" or not inappropriate is really hard but im in therapy and working on that so hopefully it will get better. Also life is really busy and stressful rn which makes making friends so much harder TwT

Ive never had online friends before so I might be a little nervous but I should calm down after a bit I might be quiet though. I also dont really have any friends rn :( I do love video games and I am a uni student so I havent been playing them recently because of finals and all the papers I have due so I should be more active like next Tuesday after this was posted. We could play Dead by Daylight together or I have Helldivers 2 never had any friends into it but I own it. I also have minecraft, id love to have someone teach me Terraria because I never got into it in my own and I have heard its really good. Or we could do a bg3 playthrough together! I also love hiking, cooking, and gardening! :3

Idk about dating right now I just dont feel like im desirable or that I would be a waste of time for somebody but this is just bad mental health mixed with childhood trauma I know but I still feel all of it. Im a lesbian so I dont want a relationship with any men but if any gals or enbies develop feelings id be open to a relationship (id prefer monogamous but i do like the idea of a closed throuple) just a warning that I got a lot of stuff to work through in life and ive never been in a relationship before so i would probably be pretty bad at it.

I downloaded all the socials yesterday to help make friends so I have discord, messenger, snap, or insta whichever works best for you. I have always used discord and text but im open to use whatever. Feel free to dm me here just preface it with you're dming about my post in t4t because im looking for roommates rn and scheduling tours so I dont want to get you confused. Also send a picture of yourself and introduce yourself and ill also send a picture of me and ill probably find something new to say that wasn't said here.

Thanks for reading! :D

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u/Blue-Key05 — 7 days ago
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Looking for a roommate

Looking for a Roommate (any gender identity)
🏠 House: 606 W California Ave (4b3b, 15min walk to the Quad)
Rent: $500 or $640
We are looking for a roommate as two of our current roommates are graduating this semester. You can choose from either a main bedroom at $500 or a basement bedroom with a private bathroom at $640. I'm Rachel (she/her) and I am a history major and ill be a senior this fall along with my roommate Zhiyuan (he/him) amd he is a mathcs major. Our new roommate we found recently is an ECE grad student Evan (he/him).

I love video games and i like staying home or hiking. Im currently in act 3 of Baldurs Gate 3 rn on my second honor mode attempt and thats been fun. Ive been using gloomstaker ranger with assassin rogue and that build is broken lol! XD My social skills are not the best i was just late diagnosed with Audhd this year but ive been working in therapy to get better at socializing and i love making friends! <3

You can check out the photos here. If you want i can take more and we are scheduling house tours regularly, feel free to DM me for more details if interested! :3

Here is the original zillow listing from a couple years ago when we first took the lease: https://www.zillow.com/homedetails/606-W-California-Ave-Urbana-IL-61801/3238685_zpid/

u/Blue-Key05 — 8 days ago