u/Blossom_4849

So I’m in high school🥹✌️ and I built friendships from freshman to junior year (up until now) but I didn’t make any close friends. (I have some acquaintances or people i only talk to INSIDE class because they already have their best friends outside of school). I only made two close friends and one of moved far away out of the city and the other, just hates everyone so she didn’t let me make any friends (controlling behaviour) and there were some other reasons so I just cut her off. I kind of sound like the villain, but there were many reasons i had to cut her off. Anyway that’s beside the point. In grade 9, it took me a lot to build up my friend group and make some good friends. But as I said, this girl (my best friend) had a disagreement with all of them and cut them off. So since she hated them, they hated her too, which means they hated me too because I was always hanging out with my best friend. I know I can start fresh and make a bunch of friends, but the problem is I spent from freshman year all the way to junior year making all these friends. It was kind of hard to build all of that up but now I have to do everything from scratch. In September, I will be a senior and everyone already has built up their friend groups. I want to know if I can make more friends in just one year (September to June). Like I know there’s no time span for making friends like it all just depends but also one year is too less I feel like. And I’ve heard that in university people don’t make that many friends and even if they do, it’s like one or two so I want more friends you know, I want to get to know more people.