u/Bliss_om

Real love requires understanding. To truly love someone, you must first try to understand them (someone willing to understand what they cannot explain). love without understanding becomes shallow.

If you like a flower, you pluck it. But if you love the flower, you give it the proper conditions to grow by keeping it in sunlight and giving it enough water. If you like a bird, you put it in a cage. But if you love it, you let it out into a better environment. That’s unconditional love.

Loving a significant other so much that you do what is best for them(and healthy for both people), not just what is pleasing for you. Not everyone can love like this. For many people, they love someone when that person helps them, but when the other person is the one needing help, they complain about not being helped instead.

When a person is in a stage of life where they need help, they do not shout for it. Instead, they show certain unusual micro-behaviors. And how you notice them depends on your point of view.

People are quick to label someone as weird, cold, or distant, but rarely stop to consider that the person might actually be dealing with social anxiety. Sometimes, the truth depends on what you choose to see.

Everyone knows this, but almost no one acknowledges it in real-life situations. For a rose to bloom, first its stem with thorns must grow. Everyone acknowledges the rose, but not its stem with the thorns. The thorns are called ugly while the rose is called pretty, even though the thorns are also part of the complete rose.

In order to love someone, you also have to accept their flaws. You cannot only love the good parts of a person while rejecting their flaws, especially when you are not perfect yourself, and then still claim that you love them. That is not love.

But when the rose’s thorns start to hurt you, you also need to have the strength to walk away and accept the bitter truth.

Sometimes, when you look into the past, you realize that even one small different decision or a different choice, could have given you a different result meaning a different opportunity...

And you always wonder if that different result would have been better.

But it always doesn't mean that if things could have been different, it could have been better....

But what if it could have been better, though?

But since you haven't tried it, you don't know. but what if it could have been better, though?

''Home''

When you get tired, they say go home.

But where to go, when you get tired at home?

Some people get homesick, some get sick of their home.

But what is this word called home?

Some say it's a place to feel happy, loved, and seen.

some say it's a place to feel lonely than you've imagined.

Everyone should get warmth of the word home,

because it's a place to live in search for hope.

Unfortunately, this is not the case,

For many people who got raised the wrong way.

But it's okay, 

We all have a say,

we can create a home of our own way.

so this basically means that at the end of the day our comfort place is home. when smth doesnot work out we always think that ill go for now and then figure it out. But what makes a home ur comfort place is the love from ur family, the healthy environment where you can be ur self without being judge and where you can feel a hope and peacefulness. But whats a home without a loving family, whats a home with toxic environment, its just a word without any emotions. But also at the end it ends with a positive message cuz home is smth where u belong and if ur current home is not giving u a sense of belonging then i mean ofc its not ok but when u grow up u do also have a choice to make a loving home by yourself for yourself. ❤️

umm again which also indicates that while we cannot control the hardships (pain) life brings, we have the power to choose our emotional response and attitude toward them (suffering)

*Looks like i even explained it, LOL* 😭

Btww any feedbacks?