u/BitterSweetGoddess53

There is a thin line between being lazy and listening to yourself. I know I need to get my ass up and start working and yet I procrastinate like I have no deadlines lining up. I remember clearly that in the beginning I started resting more because I was working too hard leading to burnout. And then at some point I got so addicted to that comfort that I stopped working hard, at one point I was fooling myself by saying "oh no, this is just me taking my time to rest so that I can work harder and more efficiently." Well the rest happened but I never got around to the latter.

Is this common? Or is it just me who's so into self love that I can even turn procrastination into a self loving thing? I would love to hear if any of you have experienced something like this

We hear this word a lot but I still don't get it. How does one be intelligent with one's and others' emotion? What does the word intelligent here signify?

Edit: okay, I understand one aspect of it. That I manage and regulate my emotions and understand the underlying reasons of why they are coming up. But what about the part of regulating someone else's emotions? That sounds like I have to try to read their mind and come up with a perfect response to make them feel comfortable? Kind of like people pleasing?

I am in my early twenties and I have managed to go braless for all these years because I seriously can't get over how uncomfortable they make me feel