Hi all, I’ve recently noticed that at my workplace despite being a major contributing member at our small manufacturing company where I’ve shouldered the workload of a few software developers who have since left and also taken up a more senior developer role that my peers and colleagues still treat me with slights and other behaviours of passive aggression. I don’t see them doing the same to others and it can bother me.
What I really want to learn is to not care about their actions towards me. I think at times my reaction can be sensed because at times I may not be as present in a meeting or I will speak over others just to get a word in. How can I establish a mindset of non-reaction?
I think if I can have this as my default and natural response then not only will I not care about the slights but I also won’t feel that drop in my momentum in my day.
I’d love to hear if anyone has been through the same and what they have done. Also I don’t want to play at their level either, I rather not react the same way.