u/BiscuitNoodlepants

The thing MarvinBEdwards talks about **is** the very illusion he is falling for. The illusion of choice.

The thing MarvinBEdwards talks about **is** the very illusion he is falling for. The illusion of choice.

If it's a brute fact of the universe that I would never order the escargot, then I cannot in fact order it, despite its appearance on the menu. The fact that it seems as if it's a real possibility because there is a menu **is the illusion of choice**.

In this post the people holding the shapes that project their shadows on the wall are the waiters at marvins restaurant and the shapes themselves are the menu

Should I apologize for being who the world has made me? My life is a deterministic spiral into hell.

u/BiscuitNoodlepants — 23 hours ago

Psalm 91:13

In this verse is the word "and" between lion and serpent implied by the hebrew words or is it possibly an addition to make it make sense in englidh.

Basically the reason I ask is if it could say tread on the lion serpent rather than lion *and* serpent, possibly as a reference to yaldabaoth from gnosticism.

I want to know if the hebrew grammar implies the **and** used in modern translations.

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u/BiscuitNoodlepants — 3 days ago

>Does putting yourself in someone else's shoes mean seeing what you would do in their place or does it mean understanding their reasons for doing what they did and acknowledging that if those reasons applied to you, you would do the same thing?

The second interpretation is closer to what genuine empathy means — and the difference matters a lot.

The first version — imagining what *you* would do in their situation — is really just **projecting yourself into a scenario**. You bring all your own values, temperament, history, and instincts, and ask "what would I choose?" That's not really understanding the other person at all; it's just a thought experiment about yourself with a changed backdrop.

The second version — understanding *their* reasons and acknowledging those reasons would move you too — is what's actually meant by perspective-taking. It requires you to temporarily adopt someone else's starting point: their fears, priorities, past experiences, the pressures they were under, what information they had. Only then can you ask whether the action makes sense. And usually, it does. Most human behavior looks irrational from the outside and perfectly logical from the inside.

The philosophical weight behind this is that **people are not arbitrary** — they act from reasons, even when those reasons are invisible to observers. To truly understand someone is to reconstruct the chain of reasoning that made their choice feel like the right or only one.

There's a subtle but important third layer too: you don't necessarily have to *agree* with someone's reasons to acknowledge they were real and that you'd respond similarly if you held them. That distinction separates empathy from endorsement, which is why empathy doesn't require moral approval — it requires honest imagination.

The first interpretation is seductive because it feels like empathy while actually being much easier. It lets you say "I would have done it differently" without ever having to do the harder work of understanding why they didn't.

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u/BiscuitNoodlepants — 11 days ago