Are we the '90s' born screwed
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Are we the '90s' born screwed? Are we the most unsuccessful generation by social/marriage standards?
the background- so i've been a social recluse type of person who spent his youth talking to very few people because i used to get bored of people & their idiotic gossipy talks easily. someway along the 20s i met the 'ONE' girl & lost her too and since then never found anyone attractive/(fun to talk with) enough to make a move.
then i used to thought that i'll get married by 28 easily(courtesy - the AM route & govt job) but now the tables have turned i feel this 90s generation is screwed in AM & in general the martiage set up especially if you're someone with no previous relationship experience. most matches don't even know what they want from the life ahead or they come up with weird does & don'ts like they're living in some first world.
people here have had multiple breakups, i mean multiple like how do they even did that? 1 or 2 break up i can understand but this multiple break up is beyond my comprehension sphere.
people meet half heartedly in am set up, like nowdays literally people who are dead inside show up for AM and talks like some royalty like they're the ones doing some favour to us the poor men.
The past decade went by like a breeze by working a job that i don't like, by being drenched in responsibilities & memories.
And now that i've turned 30, i think this generation is screwed everyone is carrying a baggage of something & marriage & companionship is way off the charts for US the 90s kids.
Lately my mind is flirting with the idea of buying a fast bike and make her my companion for the thick & the thin roads ahead. am i going the right way should i seek the thrill of like by twisting the throttle?
Am i doomed to trying to find to solace in machines? or this is a generational shift that is happening right in front of us?