u/BigAgreeable9545

I just found out that my 22-year-old daughter abused a 15-year-old boy. I'm shocked and don't know what to do with her

She's not home right now, she's working her night job, she forgot her unlocked tablet on the table.

I heard several iMessage notifications, and instinctively I went to check.

I'm shocked, I can't believe it, I wish it was a nightmare.

She's abusing a 15-year-old boy. I found out his age and the relationship through the account. The chat history shows she's been having an affair with him for months. The things she writes to him... she manipulated him, blackmailed him into not telling and keeping it a secret. I saw messages from the boy, and in one of them he says he's afraid his parents will find out they met in secret a few times. Now I can't recognize the person I raised anymore, she's not my daughter

I'm sitting here in the dark and I just don't know what to do. I feel like I'm going to lose control. If I don't do anything, I'm complicit in this monstrosity

Where did I go wrong in raising her? I feel like the image I had of my daughter has just been incinerated forever

My wife is sleeping and I haven't had the courage to wake her to tell her this yet

I'm very nervous, I don't know what to do, whether to report my daughter to the police, kick her out of the house

What do I do?

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u/BigAgreeable9545 — 6 days ago