u/Big-Department-1495

Hello, I'm looking for a Scorpio lady around early 30s-40s to be penpals with 🙂 I'm currently in a happy committed relationship so, no weird stuff please. I just want to talk about life, relationships family stuff 🙂 I understand that we are adults and get busy so, I don't mind if it takes a few days for a reply. I'm an aries sun Libra moon cancer rising and my mercury is also in aries so, If you're compatible for friendship please lmk ty🩵

Hello ram fam🩵 I'm curious to how common adhd is in or sun sign? I was misdiagnosed as dyslexic when I was itty-bitty because they knew I had something, they just didn't know what and I guess I was really quiet. I just got diagnosed yesterday as a 34yo fm. I feel like adhd and aries characteristics kinda match up a lot. I'm still going to take my meds regardless, astrology doesn't replace medical advice don't worry! Love y'all 🫶

So my Scorpio partner has been kind of weird (weird being, just not his normal behavior) from Friday to today. I think it's just a misunderstanding on his part or communication on mine, could honestly be either or both considering we mostly communicate via text and in one of the situations I had just woke up.

Context: we only see each other on weekends but, he works 1 weekend a month 2nd shift (this weekend) we've been together for 9months I know and understand it's just work. Because of family arrangements I live with my older brother and his wife and 4 kids (19nephew 16niece 10nephew 6niece) 1st shift.

Friday- I woke up grabbed my phone made coffee and did our normal goodmorning routine stuff while I was actually trying to wake up to get ready for work. He asked me how I slept so I was honest and said the kids and the dogs were really loud so not well, I said I was going to take a nap when I get back. I was referring to work but, I think he thought I meant something else because he messaged me "wait, you're not at home??" I sent him a picture of myself standing in front of my rocket the raccoon shower curtain and told him I was about to shower and that I meant after I got back from work.

Today- I told him I was going to spend quality time with the kids since he wasn't going to be home this weekend. (it ended up being just me and my10 yr old nephew most of the night) I told him I was going to take a nap then get up to make him dinner. He he responded with "him??" I sent him a picture of my nephew sitting on the couch watching TV and said "he is him" then after he realized it was just my nephew I re explained who everyone in my family was (he's never met them I understand it can be confusing) then told him "he's the only person for me and that I'm too tired and need too much love and cuddles for anyone else to handle me and if anyone tried I'd kick them in the dick."

I've been jealous in my last serious relationship because I was given a reason to be (I'm learning to be healthy again) so I just want to reassure him that he has nothing to worry about and that I am his person. Do you think it was a misunderstanding or should I be concerned? I am so very much his and would 100% defend his honor if I had to but, I am still an independent individual with agency of myself and would like to keep it that way for both of us. Am I thinking too much about it or should there be alarms going off?