After 2 months, I'm having contact with my ex again over text. we were long-distance within the same continent. I damaged her trust during the relationship and she flipped avoidant because of all the emotional implications and broke up due to overwhelming herself by internalizing all her emotions and feelings (my assumption).
I've been focussing on personal development for the last 4 years, but this breakup put everything in a higher gear. All the emotions and triggers that were going of gave me invaluable information that I harvested and integrated (never waste a good crisis).
Last week I've told here that I've been dedicating myself to becoming the man I need to be for myself and to become the man we needed when we were still together. My ex told me that this made her feel really bad, because in her eyes I didn't do it when we were still a thing.
Im looking for some refreshing views on how to interpret this. If this makes her feel bad (i.e. it touches her), what does that mean for having a chance of getting back together again? How would you interpret such a reaction?