I kind of relate to Lucifer as a literary character.
Because of my autism I am not very good at being obedient the way god expected his angels to be.
I have what is called "pathological demand avoidance" even if I wanted to do a task, if someone demands for me to complete the task, it feels like I might die if I do it all of the sudden.
Beyond that, I think the way he is interpreted by the modern Satanic Temple makes a lot of sense. Satan/Lucifer is supposedly the most physically beautiful being to ever exist, and under the Satanic Temple's interpretation, Lucifer is extremely opposed to rape, it is entirely forbidden and victim blaming is not-acceptable.
As a conventionally attractive woman, I totally understand why he would be so against gross violations of the body like that. It would be so terrifying to be the most beautiful being ever and then to be cast out and abandoned by your father/boss/creator or whatever god is to him.
I just really wish nobody worshipped these ancient war gods anymore, like the Christian god and Allah. I wish we could get past this dogmatic bullshit as a species and value the collective instead. I'm sick of the Christian victim-blaming mentality being dragged into modernity. Either you didn't scream loud enough and you get stoned to death or you *did* scream loud enough and you are forced to marry your attacker, it's so sick and unevolved, yet even though the laws have changed, the mindset persists.