Throughout my life [f18] I've always been a tomboy, not sure why. Anything with feminine characteristics I would reject. It wouldn't be until highschool that I started experimenting, but then it got worse!! yay!!
To keep it short, during prom I really tried to feel beautiful. Then got told, "wow! you can actually be pretty!" Kept it pretty low since then, would get dressed up for only fancy occasions. During graduation and the most recent Valentines, I wore the same dress which I got a lot of compliments on from other people. I cut my hair to a pixie since then, I love it! But yesterday, wore the same dress at a friends prom-themed party and got told I look much older, If i did this this and that It would work a lot better, like a mom on easter sunday (which is not at all a problem, but i thought i felt pretty for my age, even if it was a floral dress). It knocked me down pretty heavy, my boyfriend doesn't even compliment me when I try and look nice. The most I got was "I mean, look at you!" in response to "aw you got me in your food photo". He even admitted yesterday he thought he looked more dressed up than I did on Valentines and yesterday.
Is this just a social thing? Or something that is reflected in my chart? Thank you!