u/Bellatrix_o7

Honestly, I don't know what love is, and it's a very complex thing, but I've been genuinely trying to understand it for years.

Now I know we all feel this emotion at some point in our lives, but I wanna know how men and women feel about it? because they both feel it differently.

When do you know that whatever you are feeling is true love, and how do you know that you're in love?

How can I find my obsession?

People pursue things even if they are boring and many of them follow their passion. They are also very consistent in it, and consistency is not the problem. I can be consistent, but I don't find things interesting enough for them to hold my attention, and even if they do, it doesn't last that long. I feel bored, and eventually, I don't find meaning in it.

I feel this void and I want to fulfil it with something. I don't want this thing to be my passion but an obsession.

I want to feel consumed by it. I want at least one thing in my life that will make me feel restless if I don't pursue it. But I don't know how to find that.

"I want to be great, or nothing" \~

That's the quote I read today, and it made me question how someone can define something as great. What is greatness? How do you achieve it? What's the threshold for it? And how much is enough?