Should I Choose a Midwife or a Family Doctor After a Miscarriage? [bc]
Hi everyone, I’m feeling really unsure and would love some advice. Last April 2025, I had a miscarriage at 7 weeks. When I first realized I was pregnant, I went to my family doctor, but the appointment was so short, she didn’t give me any information about what to expect, what I should do, or even confirm the pregnancy. The very first question she asked was whether I wanted a C-section or a natural birth, and I was completely speechless!! I had no idea. It was my first pregnancy; I just wanted guidance. I have no family here. They stay in other country. Even my best friend moved to US. I asked if I could even choose a C-section in Canada without medical need, but at that point, the pregnancy wasn’t even confirmed with blood work or ultrasound , and I left that visit feeling so disappointed. After that, I found a midwife clinic, and even though we lost the pregnancy, their care was a lifeline,they were so attentive, calling me, checking in, and arranging an emergency ultrasound, even though it took a few days. Now, a year later, I’m thinking of trying again, but I’m so unsure, since I had a miscarriage, am I considered high risk now? Should I see a family doctor or OB-GYN for more monitoring, or do you think I should stay with a midwife? I really connected with them, but I also don’t want to miss anything crucial. If you’ve been in a similar situation, what route did you take? I would really appreciate your thoughts. Thank you so much.