u/Bella-DG

I was told to tone my outfit down and that I should be careful not to upstage the bride. I come from a very specific part of the world where weddings are extravagant and met-gala worthy, and I haven’t really been to others to know what that means.

It’s a destination beach wedding in Spain, so I will have to tone it down but I’m not sure to what extent. Can anyone give me pointers? And what traditions should I look out for? Do I send flowers to the house for the wedding announcement? Do I show up with a gift? Do ppl wear jewelry? Etc.