My ex bff reached out to me after 6 months of me breaking off the friendship. Btw looking at her face disgusts me, i avoid even looking at her name, like the plague, because it genuinely spikes my adrenaline and sends shiver down my spine. ANYWAY im not sure what to do. In the message she told me how much she misses me and she is sorry and regrets not fighting for our relationship, she understands my influence on her life and she is sorry.
I do NOT want to reconnect (which in no situation i will) im lost wether if i should send her a text explaining how much i do not wanna be near her, express my genuine hatred and disgust over her and how much my life has been better without her and how i dont miss her at all.
It will give me satisfaction but although i have heard that not saying anything makes her feel more hurt. The day she sent that message, she actually tried to follow me and i have blocked her immediately. So technically i have done the “not saying anything and ignoring” part ( a week later im finding out that she messaged me). My question is should i reply to her expressing my hatred or should i just leave it as if.
I really am leaning towards sending that message because i know her, i know it will haunt her and im just looking for reasons to send her the message and validation from reddit…