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Okay, this might end up being a ramble-y post.
I am a teenager, and a virgin, and I have a boyfriend. And we’ve been together for a year and naturally we’re getting curious.
So I’m asking, straight up, how do I, as a trans guy, have sex with a cis man?

Okay, that’s vague.
For context, I’m decently certain I was born intersex because my genitals are a little different compared to other vaginas I’ve seen.
I do not have a clitoris, I have a little stump & scar and it definitely isn’t a pleasure-tool, touching it hurts.
It hurts to put something “inside” of anything… where even is the right hole?
No matter how many diagrams I look at, or how much porn I watch ultra zoomed in and in slow-mo, I’m just confused.

Thanks. Sorry for being gross and blunt.