You say you want something different.
But you feel safest in what you already know.
So you:
trust slowly, then over-invest
ignore early signals
try to “fix” what was never yours to fix
This isn’t about the other person.
It’s about what feels familiar to your system.
Your chart doesn’t decide who you meet.
It shows you the pattern you keep choosing.
Until you see that clearly,
you won’t break it - you’ll just relive it.