I got officially discharged on may 5th but I still see negative balances on some credit cards ,personal loans, and buy now pay later accounts I had. They were included in my bankruptcy petition.
When do they officially go away or show as zero?
Also since I still have buy now pay later accounts can I use them again since I’m discharged?
I had a SA about a month ago then 2 ish weeks ago started the xulane patch . I just switched to my 3rd patch before my patch free week and I started very lightly spotting 2 days before I changed my patch, now the day after starting my 3rd patch im bleeding more like a light period.
Is this normal from a SA or the patch itself? Also a week ago I did take a plan b after intercourse just to be sure I didn’t know if the patch was working or not .
This is very long beforehand.
Ive been officially in this church or cult whatever you want to refer to it is for I want to say over a year maybe. I joined the Bible studies first from a friend , a close friend since we were children, and they tried to get me in a few times years ago but I never could commit to the Bible studies hours eventually I felt like a bad person and not learning God like I wanted to so I committed to doing the studies one on one first. (And I trust this friend because I’ve known them for so long and I’ve always gone to them for bible and God related questions.)
While in the one on one they eventually told me I had to “ move on” and go to the group Bible studies to learn more because I was asking questions they couldn’t answer because of the church rules.(I guess)
So one on one was maybe 2 months or so then I joined the 1 year group Bible study classes and it was a lot of commitment a lot of random teachers and evangelist messaging and calling me but I didn’t think anything of it because I thought it was just their process to keep you accountable.
Towards the end of the studies they made it very clear that the “new John” “promised pastor” was here physically and within THIS specific church and NO WHERE else. But, they couldn’t tell us who it was or what the church name was until we joined the church.
I assumed since I was doing Bible studies and meeting with people all the time I was in the church , I never really been to church before but always believed in God so I thought this might be how it works? They told me to after the Bible studies and joining the church the meetings, quizzes and zoom calls would basically be way less, but they lied they’re definitely ALOT more commitment then they portrayed.
So because I wanted to have answers to my questions and get more knowledge I decided to join the church. They have you fill out paperwork with your personal info on it but like random things. It asked for my car type and license plate number, my family members contact info and ages, etc. I questioned these things for maybe a week before signing anything and they said it was just because stuff and if I ever drove to the church I could help with getting other people and stuff like that idk. They had another form written in Korean that they couldn’t give me the English version of but tried to summarize what it said but I wasn’t signing it until I read it myself. The paper was essentially bullet points stating you’re joining the church , won’t change the wording of Bible, won’t shame or talk bad on the church, etc. And because I took a week to sign anything they told me I has to sign now or I had to wait another year to be let in the church until the next set of Bible classes were done. And if I didn’t sign their “book of life” ( which they stated is a physical form the church has and not spiritual) then I wouldn’t be saved if the end times were to happen .
Like I said I never really read the Bible and wanted to know God so I was nervous and I signed up to be in the church. Now months later I’ve had so many life events happen and feel like they don’t really support or help you like they claim.
Anytime I would speak to a cell leader or instructor they would just report my situation to higher ups and then I’m getting messages and calls from different people asking to talk. I’d talk to them thinking they actually cared but they would just say they’ll
Pray for me and say I need to keep them updated on my personal life. I started pulling back from the church and all the meetings and services because they’re EVERYDAY mid day to almost midnight for scheduled calls and zooms. And now I have cell leaders calling me and texting me on telegram and if I don’t respond literally within the same minute they call my personal phone and text me that I need to be on telegram and I need to make up services and I need to get on phone calls. I don’t like feeling pressured and pushed into people saying I NEED to do anything, especially my phone getting blown up everyday. So now I’m done and I’ll learn God on my own or with people I can trust .
I am thankful they gave me some knowledge in this church but I don’t even know what’s true or not until I read my Bible myself.
This church wants you to stop your regular everyday life to be apart of it and spread the word. You’re not allowed to let others listen in on the services or supposed to tell anyone the church but same time they want you to get people to join? It doesn’t make sense. I have a 6 month old baby and I’ve been told multiple times I need to get help with my baby so I can focus on they church but they say it as if I need to get more help with my baby to give my time to God. They push that they aren’t the ones making you do anything, join service, learn the word and do quizzes that’s you’ll do it because its for God and the promised pastor got this messages from the angel sent from Jesus that this is what helps us get into “new heaven new earth” because outside the church everyone else is in Babylon.
If anyone else was or is in the church please message me and we can connect I want to speak to members that have left or thinking of leaving so I don’t feel crazy. I want to be saved when Jesus returns and this church makes you feel like you won’t unless you’re in this church and idk how to feel about it.
Sorry this is long in advance.
So I’m looking for some clarity in this post. If you’re in this church or previously apart of this church. I joined over a year ago starting with the Bible studies eventually signing book of life into the church. I never had any church background or knowledge really about the Bible. I grew up just being told by my family that we were Christian , but I knew I always believed in God. My friend introduced me to the church in Bible study eventually the more I got into it they told me about the services and test on sundays etc.
Now I am feeling like it’s not making sense to me and I don’t really want to go to anyone in the church because I feel like they go around my questions and just ask if I believe in the word.
I don’t really understand why I have to meet with someone almost everyday and take a quiz which they keep changing the rules of things and expecting everyone to just be able to change schedules and adjust to their timing for things. And they make a big deal about doing “live” service but the church service takes place in Korea that’s a whole different time zone so it’s obviously not live it’s all recorded anyway. And when I first started it was if you can’t have your camera on or meet at the time they have service you do make up and send notes in then it changed to you can’t watch the service alone and send notes you have to do another meeting and watch it with someone else then it changed back again. But when I question it is always this Is what God wants. That doesn’t add up God sees me 24/7 Good bad and ugly so why do I need to be physically dressed in white, why do strangers need to see my face on zoom, and why can’t anyone else be around me to hear the word but yet I’m supposed to get people to want to join the church? Also I’m not sure if I’m crazy or just don’t have enough knowledge about the Bible and the word fully but most of the time the services all sound the same to me or they don’t make any sense or I’m just not getting the message from the points they are giving.
They made it known when i first started that people see this as a cult but gave reasons they aren’t and they seem legit. And one person said not to read the cult reviews of the church then another said to read them so I did. Sometimes it makes sense sometimes it doesn’t. And I definitely need to be better with reading my Bible but when I feel forced to do 10000 different things it discourages me . And I want to have the blind faith this is the right thing and the right place and the promised pastor but I am just a person that needs it to make sense too.