Hello! I’m a FTM age 35 and I know I’m probably the 1000th person writing this but I’m having the pre 20w scan anxiety. My scan is the day after tomorrow and I’m feeling so stressed about not finding the heartbeat or finding out there are big problems with the baby’s heath. I’m officially 20w today and I still haven’t felt the baby (I might have but I’m really not sure) with a posterior placenta. I had a 17w scan to know the gender and the person who did the scan was able to see kidneys, stomach and bladder clearly + said everything looked good.
Because of 2 past early miscarriages I haven’t been able to fully enjoy the pregnancy experience especially because I basically haven’t had any symptoms which triggered more anxiety (I know I should be appreciative 😅).
Anyone who would like to share their positive experience is more than welcome ❤️