Hi, it’s my first time posting here, needless to say I was a bit hesitant, but I really need the advice
i wanna preface by saying that I don’t live in the US, I’m from Latin America, so keep that in mind
I (25F) am a graduate currently working independently, so my income is not stable, lately there’s been some issues in the house, mainly involving me, I am the older sibling and the person in which everyone relies when they need doctors appointments, to buy certain stuff, feed the pets and some others, I am also in a stable relationship, and ever since I got a partner I started to create some boundaries with my family, like going out weekends (during the day) and others.
issue starts here, lately ive been feeling like I’ve gained more responsibilities and less benefits, for instance, my parents won’t let me go out Saturday and Sunday, won’t let me arrive home after noon if I stayed out that night, they will recriminate me for staying up late, or leaving for work too tight, list goes on.
My partner has a house of her own, and I could move in any minute, but I’ve been putting it off because I wanted to be able to provide equally, and for that I would need a stable income, but now that I’m facing this situations at home I’m wondering if I should leave even if I don’t have a contract or if I should wait
what do I do?