u/Background-South-418

Should I cut off this friend?

I have a friend who is also my classmate which I've dated for a very short time who has been having some behaviours that make me uncomfortable. the behaviours are: making often sexual jokes either about me or anyone else, touching me (non sexual way) when I repeatedly told him not to and trying to make others look stupid during arguments and honestly over all making you feel worthless (he has a superiority complex). not only that, he was defending a girl from our gc who at the birthday of another friend of ours, started drinking tons and randomly lashed out on everyone. she started to kick the furniture, started cursing around and beating a guy who was her best friend and nearly got everyone kicked out. everyone stopped talking to her but him. leaving this aside, many of our friends expressed being uncomfortable around him because of these behaviours I have named, saying overall being around him isn't enjoyable because he just keeps making fun of you in the form of joking. I have confronted him about this but he just brushed it off and as a consequence I'm distancing myself from him. how could I handle this without making too much of a scene ? take in consideration that I see this guy every day for 6 hours.

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u/Background-South-418 — 4 days ago

What do you think of remigration?

I was recently talking to a friend about this and he said "if you're an immigrant that doesn't bring any value in my society then I believe you should get deported" and honestly I was pretty shook about this. I asked him about the immigrants that are refugees because of persecution, war in their native land ect and he said he doesn't really care about that. his answer was "you shouldn't behave badly or simply lay all day in bed not contributing to society if you're a refugee or an immigrant" and I genuinely felt so disappointed in him. I'm the daughter of immigrants and hearing these words made my heart break. not a single ounce of empathy for a fellow human being. wow

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u/Background-South-418 — 5 days ago