Hello,
I just want to say you men are actually disgusting. My dad went on one of these tours and met a young women to marry when I was a young kid after his divorce (or during their marriage idek). The lady is incredibly mean and the situation put me in a confusing situation as a young girl. I started to experience depression at a young age developed a terrible relationship with men, I even started seeing older men thinking it was normal and got in some traumatic situations at a young age . Seeing these forums and discovering the truth about what my dad did is disgraceful, you all should be ashamed. I understand loneliness but putting your family through emotional trauma to fulfill your selfish lustful desires is disgraceful. Please seek Jesus or something for the love of god.