u/Awkward_Donkey_5646

I have an almost 7 year old calico, (probably 9ish pounds, spayed)and in 2024 we got a male kitten snd she’s not always been super fond of him but seemed like she was adjusting until recently. Her entire life until December of 24 she played with our roommates male cat and did fine. But now we also have a noisy toddler and she doesn’t leave the bedroom except to use the litter box , but recently she’s starting going to the bathroom (3 times in the last month or so) in our bed. I’m considering getting something for her anxiety because she’s so afraid of everything (and we’re not rehoming either cat, or the toddler lol). I was told she might be marking her territory or she’s just way too afraid of the toddler and other cat to leave the bedroom. She eats all day and tends to throw up a couple times a week (but can only eat one brand of food that doesn’t make her skin peel). Just wondering if this is a common thing or what I can do to help her anxiety. TIA