Is she possessive or am I overthinking it?
So I have this friend we’ve been close for about 10 years she was my best friend at a certain point. She always has something negative happening with her which gets really draining for me sometimes but I’m happy to support all my friends regardless. Where things got weird is when I started expanding my social circle and my friends threw a surprise birthday little gathering like it was only 4 people there. Everyone knows I don’t really celebrate my bday. I called her to let her know how it went and she was angry at me and made it all about her and how she wasn’t invited and how I should’ve told them if they were planning anything for me she should be there as my best friend. This was a shock to me because I had no idea my other friends were planning anything for me and her as my best friend didn’t even plan anything anyway which i was ok with cause I don’t celebrate my birthday. They also do not know here nor have they ever met her/ spoken to her. She would do stuff like check my other friends stories on instagram when she knew I was hanging out with them which was weird especially because they don’t follow each other. She would get an attitude when I was hanging out with my other friends or my boyfriend at the time. If I don’t pick up her call she will spam call me. I’m starting to get worried because she has a boyfriend and other friends and fear she’s putting a lot of expectations or emotional labour on me as a friend. I will bring this up but I just don’t know how much longer I can put up with this behaviour l.