my friend (20f) changed sides while conveying my (20f) msgs to the guy who blocked me.
for context, i wanna say that im on his side too, he is two years older than us, and i know why he blocked me cause i really overwhelmed with all my anxious texts, like i know it was fault.
i had just gotten blocked and i was really overwhelmed and it was unbearable to me, she was a really close friend of mine and i reached out to her and she agreed to convey 2-3 of my messages and when they were literally in a conversation and this is clearly so important to me she told me "i cannot do this, i hav my birthday in 2 days i hav not planned anything i dont even hav time to eat" i respected that and even told her she can ask me for help for her birthday planning.
then after a few hours at 2am, she herslef sent me two screenshots of her conversation with him where she was talking about how exhausting this is, and she told me in all caps that she is done being the messenger and after that i just asked her for the rest of the conversation but she refused.
i get that i messaged her a lot about it and that overwhelmed her but i was really anxious and she was like one of my closests friends, i thought i could be honest about that with her. and i respect it that she sided with him the whole story, i know i hav overwhelmed him a lot by my attachment and i side with him too.
i didnt talk about this at all on her birthday, after that i just politely asked her for the conversation, nothing else, which turned into a very overwhelming conversation, then she complained to him to ask me to stop.
he told me he has lost all respect for me now because of this. but was it justified for her to gatekeep the conversation even tho she doesn't owe it to me now that we aren't friend?