u/AwayAd6931

My girlfriend and I have been dating for 10 months now and we plan to get married in the future. The struggle with it though is that we both have different visions in our heads about moving in together. She wants to take her parents house and keep it in the family, but I've always wanted to move to a big city and get a studio apartment for my music career. I'm stuck about what to do because when I told her that's what I've dreamt about, she seemed disappointed about what I wanted. I want to move for both my career and to get a fresh start out of the little town we live in currently.

Should I move in with her in her family home, or should I follow my dream? Please help