u/Away-Butterscotch737

My baby doesn’t have a strict routine. He’s 9 months now and last night he woke up 13 times. The night before that he only woke up twice. I’m at a loss, I’m exhausted. It feels like some days 2 naps work but then the next it doesn’t. He’s breastfed and we cosleep because he wakes up after 40 minutes in his cot and won’t go back to sleep in there. I can’t do cry it out, I’ve tried and the crying is too much for me. What else can I do? 😩