u/AwarenessUsed490

I recently been introduced to self-concept and started trying to apply that. when I first heard about it, I was told that it’s all about how you look at yourself in different aspects in life I don’t believe I have the most amazing self-concept, but I have a pretty good self-concept on how I look at myself, money, work, sometime friends wise is all good but my love life and how i veiw my love life. my love life sucks and I look at my love life like it sucks so it’s hard to believe and say positive things when so many negative things has happened surrounding my love life even in time so I was positive about certain things in my love life and I got a negative result. It just makes it harder and more harder to believe that there is a good for me love life. I know it is good for me and my love life, but it’s really hard to believe that when so many negative things has happened even when I thought positive negative things has happened so as I’m still trying to build myself concept to be the person that I desire to be i am starting to try to look at my love life a more positive than I’ve ever did. I have a terrible love life and I don’t want it continue to be terrible. I believe I am a loving, desirable person a very passionate loving person, but I don’t know what to do like any tips on how to work concept in your love life if that makes sense lol