Is it his bipolarism or is he just an a**hole?
I have a bipolar friend who in his good mood period floods me with many voice messages in a row, 5 to 10 seconds each. These messages are not communicating anything, it's just him telling him "GOOOOD MORNIING QUEEEN!", "Time to drink an EsPrESSsoooo!", and anything stupid that makes me genuinely laugh.
The issue is that when I send voice messages he barely finds time to play them. Sometimes he even leaves them unplayed for weeks.
Well 4 days ago I sent him a 14 seconds voice message just to ask him if he made a decision about going to an event together. He replied: "Voice messages are stressing me at the moment. If it's important, text please." Not a "Hello", not an explanation, really just said message.
I'm starting wondering how much bipolarism is the cause and how much is the simple "I don't give a fuck about you" because (he's always been very egocentric). Can somebody help me? I'm not very familiar with bipolar disorder, and I'm starting getting tired of a friendship where he always sets the rules.