u/AutumnalSnugs

I have a friend who carries a deck with her always. We are together a lot so she always has me pull cards. For the last dozen or so pulls, I have gotten the Staves card (she says it's also called Wands). It is not always upright. She says I am dealing with keeping something quiet or making a change. Can someone elaborate? I'm not sure I'm understanding correctly. I feel like the universe is really trying to tell me something and I am missing it. The coincidence of pulling it a dozen time in a row can't be, well, a coincidence!