I Gave Everything, Still Lost Everything
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Hey everyone, I’ve seen a lot of people share their stories on this page, so I thought I’d share mine too.
People often talk about how disloyal boys are, or how having a high body count is somehow considered an achievement for them. But honestly, that was never the case for me.
I fell in love with a girl in 2017, and it was the first time I had ever truly loved someone. We were always in a long distance situation. Even though we didn’t actually communicate until 2019, her thoughts were constantly on my mind during all those years.
In 2019, we finally started talking, and by 2020, we had become best friends. I proposed to her in January 2021, and she accepted. That phase of my life was genuinely the happiest time of my life.
I was always serious about the relationship. I never looked at any other girl in that way, no matter what. I wouldn’t even touch another girl because, in my mind, I was completely committed to her.
I never attended my college fest just so I could spend more time talking to her. Many times, I skipped my meals only to be with her on calls or chats. Every night before sleeping, I prayed for her, and while travelling, I would pray for her at every single temple I came across. That’s how deeply I loved her.
I used to finish my assignments and projects early in college itself so that after coming back home, I could dedicate all my time to her. I genuinely did everything I possibly could for her. Literally everything.
And guess what happened in the end? She cheated on me.
She cheated on me in April 2024, but I had no idea about it at that time. Everything happened so randomly. One day, she suddenly blocked me everywhere without any explanation, and in November 2024, I finally got to know the truth that she had cheated on me.
After giving someone so much loyalty, effort, love, and dedication, getting cheated on changes you completely. It makes you question everything. Sometimes it feels like efforts don’t matter, people don’t value genuine feelings, and life doesn’t always reward good intentions.
At this point in my life, I’m just focusing on myself. I recently got placed, and from next month, a new professional chapter of my life will begin. Maybe life is about learning through pain and becoming stronger because of it.
PS: Everything written here is true. I only used ChatGPT to correct the grammar and improve the formatting.