Newly engaged! Need advice please
Hi everyone I want to get married on 11/13 this year Friday the 13TH cause I am very big on Halloween and stuff but I wanna do a civil wedding and something very small and intimate since if me and my fiancé are planning it we don’t have a lot of money to do a party.
My mom got into my head about doing a big party to invite more family and friends and I let her get into my head about things but no one in the family has been willing to help out only my uncle to let us use his small backyard which isn’t leveled it’s just like a very bad parking space. I really would love to do a party to invite friends and family to celebrate with us but my I’m worried of them throwing stuff in my face later on ( like favors). I don’t think 6 months is enough time to plan anything with little to no money for about 40 people which is immediate family and a few friends
Did anyone just celebrate with their husband or wife when they got married? I really want a party or venue even if we do it 1-3 years if we have money saved up but I would much rather use that for a honeymoon..
Edit** this is very dumb context but this is kinda the situation that I’m dealing with now
My mom told me that my family members are willing to help me with wedding stuff I just need to let them know for what stuff
-this morning I refused to take my cousin to school alongside my sister because they wouldn’t let me borrow a car seat for her, I told my aunt I do not feel comfortable driving her anywhere without a car seat so I had to decline, she was very very upset about it and then called my mom crying because she herself had to drop her off at school, my mom said since I didn’t do her a favor I cannot be asking her for favors i.e wedding help.
I don’t want to deal with petty things like this and that’s a big part of me not wanting to do anything with their help.