pain only during PIV, can't have sex
A BIT NSFW I THINK?
but i (19f) my bf (20m) are both virgins and this is our first time trying to do it, i can insert 2 of my fingers and he can almost fit 2 of his but 1 more easily as he has thicker fingers compared to mine. and before this, i was successful in putting something in as well so i am not sure if it is exactly vaginismus as i'd be unable to put anything inside.
as for me there is only burning pain and tightening at the entrance and after that it's fine. so i am not sure what it is exactly and i am on birth control too if it effects. we have tried a few times now alongside lube, i also feel really turned on mostly but STILL everytime we try to do it, only his tip can get in before it starts burning that i have to ask him to stop.
i feel like theres something so deeply wrong with me and i hate having this, it's making me depressed almost. is my hymen thicker or could i have some uti/yeast infection or it is actually vaginismus? we are thinking of visiting a gyno but we're in a foreign country so it's a bit difficult, so i'd prefer some help on here! thank you :)