u/AstronomerKindly5189

i’m a christian, have been for my entire life. i have a co worker who is very not christian but a great guy
he asked me a question that i don’t know how to answer. we were talking about celibacy and how you should reserve yourself for marriage and keep your body pure for marriage. he asked me this question

“if you’re married, and your wife sends you *those* pictures, can you masterbate to them if you guys agree that it’s okay?”

i told him i honestly didn’t know and i’d have to get back to him on that
and i have no clue how to answer that question so i figured i’d as it in here hoping someone can help me out so i can get back to him