We broke up mutually and decided to reach out back months after. Everything went well! Until…
She went on a random rant out of nowhere and said how I use to never use to buy her anything and would be very hesitant. (We were together in High school and I only work in the summer, minimum wage. I saved up money for college by myself since my dad is the only income earner in the house whom gets paid not much.)
I was shocked when she said this. She knew that I was going to save for my ENTIRE college expenses, and knew my family’s finance struggles… that being said, I got her food when she asked, rings, flowers, and other stuff.
I never ask my father for money, he works hard enough to put food on the table so I make sure to never tell him when I’m a few dollars short.
Don’t get me wrong, she did buy me stuff but it was always her parents money. She never brought this up in the relationship but now it’s a problem in which she can’t look past. Am I overthinking and overreacting?
When she said that, all my feelings for her faded.