u/Asternpolecat

I’m a 22 year old college student, and I have actually never drank in my life. My dad was an alcoholic and died of alcohol poisoning when I was a kid and since then made the decision to never start drinking.

One of the difficulties I’ve had with this though is dating. I don’t mind dating someone who does consume alcohol but I’ve really struggled with them seeing me not drinking as an issue and have had multiple girls bring up in the past that they wish I would drink with them, just have one, ect. The other end is I’ve struggle a lot to meet girls as most college kids my age are spending their Friday nights out at the bars.

I just want to ask if any of you have had similar experiences in this regard and how you’ve overcome this.

Also sorry if this is absolutely the wrong sub reddit for this. If it is please feel free to remove the post.

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u/Asternpolecat — 17 days ago