This might be a long post and may not make much sense, I’m not good at this kind of stuff.
I became friends with someone almost two years ago and we quickly became really close friends, since then I’ve gotten quite needy without knowing and I’ve become quite dependent on them. Early this year we started dating, and I was really happy, but I also got a lot more needy/dependent on them which I did notice a bit but I didn’t think it was that bad, I still tried to be less needy anyway but still not knowing how needy I was. A month ago they ended the relationship and we tried to just be friends. During this year they would just ignore me for a day or two and I hated it. After we broke up I took a ten day break from social media and stuff so I didn’t talk to them that entire time, but they also didn’t message me but I wasn’t sure if it’s because they didn’t want to talk to me or just because I was taking a break. After the break I started speaking to them again, and they ignored me for a day or two again multiple times, and now the last time they spoke to me was Tuesday the 28th, I still said good morning and goodnight to them until (1st of may) Friday when I said good morning and tried to tell them about what I did the night before, they got my message but didn’t respond, which I then deleted my messages I sent on Friday, and unfriended them on the two things I use to communicate or play with them. I haven’t spoken to them since Friday (1st) and they still haven’t messaged me since Tuesday (28th). There is some stuff I’ve missed out because idk how to talk about it, but now I want to know if this friendship is over or if I should message them or something else. I care about them a lot and I don’t want the friendship to end, but I don’t know what to do, and I don’t want to be a needy friend that makes them feel drained which they did say I was doing.
I really need advice on what to do.