u/AskKooky5236

I have a very dear and close friend who I’m going to see in person again and she’s struggling with an eating disorder and is finally in recovery although on shaky ground. I am currently dieting right now so calorie counting and I’m worried about potentially triggering her. I’ve been trying to avoiding bringing up that I’m dieting, should I avoid eating in front of her, or talking about food in general, I have avoided mentioning my weight and how many calories I’m eating as well, I am very scared because her anorexia got to a dangerous level and she’s finally in recovery and I don’t want to jeopardize that. I’m honestly considering not visiting her until I’m finished dieting so that I don’t even bring it up in front of her but I also do want to be there for her as a friend now. If you all have any advice or what you would want your friend to do please let me know.