u/Artistic-Buy8716

I was just wondering, if there were two guys fighting for a girl, he wouldve been known as brave, possessive. these girls are called sl*ts and wh*res. for wanting someone who they felt safe with once and were emotionally connected with. Ruru has been facing hate since the beginning, for her character, her tattoos her choices etc. For stealing akankshas connection. Akanksha is now hated for the reunion.

while it is true that both these girls shouldnt go behind yogesh, isnt yogesh the one who severely wronged them? We do not live in an ideal world. It isnt that easy to let go off someone who you once thought was your person.

If yogesh even liked them, he shouldnt have done what he did.

Adding to misogyny topic, Diksha has been called gawar by the audience and made fun of for her english, but gullu who speaks worse english is called funny.

It is fair whatever diksha felt, everything that happened on the show and post the show was terrible for her.

However, for purely discussion purposes only, i wanna know these things

1. When you sign up for a reality show, these things happen. Its not wrong that she felt that way or she talked about it but the lengths shes going to, to throw other contestants in dirt, isn't it hypocritical? you want other people to face the same things you did?

2. About the beating incident, she was the one to first talk about it in ivs n stuff. hence it became a big debate about who was wrong and who wasnt. repeated lives, tell people the opposite party was wrong, how she was wrong, continuously changing statements made her extremely distrustful even before the episode aired. people who wouldve otherwise supported her if she just made an explanation video regarding why she did what she did also couldnt fully support her.

3. She could've just apologised for the extremely distasteful skit but continued to justify it elongating the topic, making people remember what she did.

4. Going against contracts, giving spoilers, ruining audiences experience who have waited for 3 months to know who the finalists are is extremely tone deaf. i understand she wants to go against mtv for all the things they have done including participating in bullying but i feel it couldve been done in other ways.

Now, bullying a contestant for their english is extremely distasteful. They have come to provide content, not show their foreign linguistic skills. Each one of them came with a unique personality making the show what it is today.

Extreme hate towards a contestant just because they had a fight with the most loved contestant is also wrong. The matter wasnt black and white. Both were at fault but neither deserved the kind of hate they went through especially diksha.

same as title whyyyyyyyyy whay to doo i was burnt out so i stopepf studying for some time and had to travel for other exams but attempted a mock today and yea (i was also not fully atten5ive maybe thats y)