I need advice on my situation
Hi Reddit, I have a situation. I live in the Netherlands and about 2 weeks ago it was liberation day and we had a festival to celebrate. I was with my friend and her friend group and I had a great time. For a little bit of backstory about a year ago I had a bad breakup and that broke me, my ex is now very mean to me and is saying mean thing about me and I am just not ready for a new relationship. One of the guys who was there said to me that he knew a guy for me like romantic. I just said to the guy to give me his snapchat and I thought I will see what I do with this. The guy who gave me the guys snap took me and my friend home but all of a sudden he took us to where the guy worked. I was terrified and my friend and the guy left me alone to talk to the guy and honestly it was very akward. He added me back on snap but he genuinely seemed like a nice guy so I kept his snap. I am the type of girl who like a romantic relationship to happen naturally. I love my friend but this felt so forced. Just now the guy texted me how my exams are going and if I wanted to go something soon. Honestly I don’t want to because 1. I don’t know the guy just met him that one time 2. I am just not ready for something 3. he is not really my type thb and 4. It just doesn’t feels good. From what I have seen he is a very nice guy and I don’t want to hurt him and I don’t want to be hurt like I have been before, I just want to be single for a while but idk how to tell him. Please help me I am about to cry