u/ArianeCZ

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Got outed in my hometown

Hello everyone I hope you have a good day

For context I made a coming out as bisexual during my middle school years that was badly received to say the least, which led me to repping for years and made my coming out as trans very stressful

A few weeks ago I decided to come out to two of my friends from my hometown, as I trusted them enough and thought they would keep it for themselves

At the beginning of the week I decided to come out to a third guy that I know from my hometown, and to my surprise they already knew it

Now of course this one I don't mind, but I have understood now that probably everyone in my hometown knows Im trans, including people I really didn't want to come out to

I am also forced to go back to my hometown in july for the holidays, and yes Im definitely going to be hatecrimed

I hope this is a good reminder for you to not have cis friends and that TCD is not an exaggeration in any way :(

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u/ArianeCZ — 5 days ago
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I have seen a post about mannerisms being posted today and I wanted to elaborate on this subject

I know that there are some things we are socially forbidden to do as trans women and that we often feel the urge to be above average when it comes to mannerisms, being "femalebrained" or whatever

But at the end of the day if you think about it, there is not so much difference of mannerisms between men and women. Yes, mannered bimbos exist and they have their male equivalent which are very mannered gay guys. And hypermasculine guys exist and they have their equivalent with butch lesbians or a lot of sport-oriented women.

So yes, there is a lot of things to doom about when it comes to physique, bonepill or whatever you want, but mannerisms are not really among them.

I realized this just by comparing myself with my mother; she is a strong woman, that I was really fearing when I was a child because she has this sharp character and would roar across the house when she is angry. She is to some extent more "male-mannered" than me on a lot of points, but nobody would ever see her as a man or question her femininity.

So yes Im ngmi but for a lot of other reasons than mannerisms, and I don't think you should doom about this apart if you really want to be clocked as HSTS (only probable result). Strong mediterranean matriarch maxxing is the only way

u/ArianeCZ — 11 days ago

Hello,

I am mtf currently three months on hrt, do you think I am far from passing and if yes what are the reasons

And also do you think my eyebrows are really a barrier on first photo ?

Thank you for reading !!

u/ArianeCZ — 12 days ago