AITAH for telling my sister that i wont take care of her autistic kids?
For context im F15 and shes F29. she has two kids, one is 10 and the other turned two. the 10 year old is autistic and nobody knows (yet) for the two year old.
lately, for the past month i havent had any weekends to literally sit at home and relax. ive also been getting 2-5 hours of sleep each night due to the two year old. each week they both come over on tuesdays, wednesdays, and, all throughout early friday to late monday. so that really leaves thursday to get 8 hours of sleep. usually, i sleep with the baby, and my nephew sleeps with my other sister.
so for the past month, ive had a mix of debate, errands, moving, and kids to deal with. my grades and preformance in class has significantly dropped, and ive been really irritated, which doesnt help my case. so this week (on monday) finals start. my F29 sister wants me to do her hair which is usually a two day thing. she said i was overdramatic and that i'll need to do it anyway. since im 15 and im unlicensed, of course braiding her hair is gonna take two days!!
she wants me to take care of her kids, since nobody will be at home, braid her hair, AND miss my finals to do that same hair. i just started crying, and i yelled at her. i told her that she needs to stop asking everybody but her to take care of her kids, and that im sick of caring for her autistic son and her 'bad ass two year old daughter'. ive had a few hours to think, and i feel really bad. since they arent legit my kids, and i hear alot how hard it is to take care of kids.
i know how hard it must be to be a new mother, and how tiring it is. especially when you want your sister to spend time with you or do her hair to get away from taking care of her own kids. even worse, a two year old who doesnt wanna sleep through the night!! aitah?☹️