Are you the fetishist type?
i think ENTPs are very open to talk about this
I'm male and straight. When asked about what I like in bed I can only think about vanilla sex, and very heteronormative if I can say... connected, wild, but it's about the context, feeling the skin, the sounds, looking how feminine and erotic my partner looks, her body, the smell of her perfume...
If you asks me what I think to turn me on, I will say that it's "just" a woman with open legs that wants sex with me. that's actually very cool and enough. I dont think like "oh she needs to use a tinfoil hat and fluorescent socks because that really turns me on", no.
Then I'm meeting an INTP girl...
holy fcking god. All types of stuff, terms, techniques, masoquist, blablabla, and blablabla, and she made me do a fucking long test do discover what I liked in bed.
I just... don't get it? but of course I can do all the crazy stuff for my partner but it's not for me.
I've heard it was an "intuitive thing, because straightly physical sex can be boring", but it's not my experience
What about you guys?