So last night I was out drinking and I was at a rave. I saw a man I thought was cute so I went over to him and started flirting with him bc I thought he also felt the same way. We’re talking and at one point I tell him I think he’s beautiful and I even have my arm wrapped around his shoulder. It turns out he didn’t feel that way I felt bc shortly after he put on his coat and told me he had to use the restroom and I did not see him again after that. I’ve been spiraling all day because of how horrified I am that I may have made him uncomfortable, which was absolutely not my intention. I talked to my friend about it and he doesn’t seem to think it was actually that big of a deal since aside from wrapping my arm around his shoulder nothing actually happened. However, the guilt has been eating me up and making me feel sick to my stomach. If I ever see the man again I do know that I have every intention of apologizing profusely but aside from that idk what to do and I’m freaking out.
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