Sister in law made negative comments about me
So, bit of a long one but here we go
Me and my sister in law had miscarriages around the same time
We both got pregnant again around the same time, with due dates around a month apart, she was ahead of me and i didn’t know she was pregnant when I got pregnant
She was super supportive during my entire pregnancy and we seemed to bond over our shared trauma and being pregnant at the same time
Fast forward to now, with our 9 month olds and I’ve found out that 2 months after our babies were born she was making some very negative comments about me to my mother in law (no idea what or why!) and that she stated I’m the last person she would have wanted to have had a baby at the same time as her
I always thought we had a good relationship despite us living a few hours away from each other and I really leaned on her in those early post partum days for support and advice
We hadn’t spoken for around a month when these comments were made and I have no idea what I did wrong, or why she felt this way
I guess I just feel super rejected, upset and angry by the whole thing, particularly when I have no idea what I did or said wrong to have caused this