I’m in my late 30s and realizing how different making friends feels compared to my 20s. Back then it just kind of… happened. Now it feels like everyone already has their circle, is busy with work/kids/life, or just isn’t looking to add new people.
I’m not antisocial, I actually enjoy being around people, but I have no idea where to even start anymore. Apps feel weird, random conversations feel forced, and I’m not exactly trying to go out partying every weekend.I WFH and have lost touch with most all of my friends the past few years after leaving a long relationship and losing my mother sent me into a hibernation mode.
For those of you in your 30s:
How are you actually meeting new friends?
What has worked (or totally not worked)?
Is it normal for it to feel this hard?
Would really appreciate real experiences or advice feels like I can’t be the only one going through this.