I was overweight as a kid due to a medical issue and got bullied by family and classmates. I was often made to feel like the “ugly” girl, not just because of my weight but because of my appearance in general. In my teens, depression and an unhealthy relationship with food caused my weight to go up and down a lot, which left me with noticeable stretch marks and some loose skin.
I’ve since lost most of the weight through a healthier routine, but instead of feeling better, I feel just as insecure. All I see are the marks and loose skin, and I feel unattractive and ashamed, like my effort didn’t change anything.
This has affected my mental health, my studies, and my relationships. I feel very alone, and sometimes I wonder if anyone will ever like me.
I don’t see people talk about this side of weight loss much, even though it can really affect your mental health — especially when you don’t have the right support and hear harsh comments instead.
I just wanted to share this and hear your thoughts. Has anyone else felt this way after weight loss? How do you cope with the insecurity from stretch marks and loose skin? I just want to know I’m not alone.